主题：这对美国夫妇要求退回领养的中国孩子 -- 心文连博
这个事件经当地警方调查，是一起恶作剧，细节可以看这里, 大家也算聊以安慰吧。 但类似的传闻在美国已经不是一次两次了。去年看到过一条新闻起诉一对夫妇虐待养女，把孩子倒提撞来撞去结果导致重伤致死，虽然这样的事总是有，但新闻中提到此养女是从中国领养的，让人不由得格外关注。联想到许多美国年青夫妇把领养孤儿看作领养猫狗般，追求高尚生活方式的心态（甚至听说过夫妇离婚后无人愿抚养的事件），这样事件的真实性并不是不存在的。
希望此类事件只是极端中的个例，愿一出生就不幸被父母抛弃远离亲土的孤儿们在美国得到真正的温暖，一生平平安安。
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本来是想趁着到处大摔卖的光景换辆车，于是今天就到craigslist看看家里04年的宝马能卖个什么价，结果就看到这个让人伤心的贴子：http://losangeles.craigslist.org/wst/bab/958345197.html
这是一对家住洛杉矶贝弗利山庄的夫妇，妻子46岁那年还没有孩子，丈夫建议去中国领养一个，于是两公婆欢欢喜喜飞到中国去从“共产主义”下解救一个孩子（贴子原话，不知这女人是开玩笑还是怎么的想出这么个理由）。但是当揭开包住孩子的毯子时发现小孩是个秃头（襁褓中婴儿秃头很常见，也没人对他们解释一下），于是这位“妈妈”就开始了产生了对女婴从外貌到整个人的厌恶。现在看小孩有一岁大（照片中看起来），头发还没有完全长全，这位“妈妈”居然找过原来的领养机构要求退“货”，完全是把孩子当成商品或宠物了。只是“退货”没能被接受，理由居然也是孩子“秃头”，这都是什么世道。于是这位“妈妈”就把孩子给登到craigslist上来“拍卖”了。
看到照片里的孩子真是可怜，在这样一个情况下不敢想象那位“妈妈”是不是还能用心照顾她，贴子里说孩子整天哭，大概是好不到哪里去。 河里如果有人能想到什么办法，希望不论是国内还是国外，帮帮联系国内领养机构，实在不行就把孩子接回去吧，这个样子看着孩子真受罪，还不知道会不会有人看到craigslist把小孩领养呢。
I don't like the baby we adopted (Beverly Hills)
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Date: 2008-12-14, 11:15PM PST
Hello. My name is Barbara Stanwick. I need help, my adopted baby isn't what I expected and I don’t like it. Here’s my story…
Ever since my husband, Don, and I married 22 years ago, I've wanted children. The years passed, and once I turned 45, I knew it was too late for me to conceive. So last year, on my 46th birthday, Don surprised me with adoption papers. It was the greatest day of my life. We were going to adopt a baby! It was from China, but I was still excited (we're very gracious, and wanted to save a baby from the communists)!
After being on the adoption list for several months we were informed that a child had been selected for us! My anxiety acts up on planes, so Don's assistant, Lauren, retrieved the baby from the Orient. I was finally going to have my very own baby.
When Lauren walked in, it was swaddled in blankets. I named her Wing, right then and there. A combination of Wang and Ling. I had never been happier, holding little Wing in my arms.
But it was all downhill from there. I pulled back the blanket from her face and that's when I saw the problem. Not only did Wing NOT look like wanted her to, but she was BALD! I had been given a BALD Chinese looking baby! My vertigo hit me like a wall.
Since then, I have been trying to send Wing back to China, but they won’t take her. I filed a complaint with the adoption agency, but they didn’t accept “bald baby” as a reason for returning it. Wing cries all the time, which makes my migraines act up and I think the cat might be allergic to her as well. If anyone would like to take Wing, even though she's bald, I will either trade or sell her to you. She's not a bad baby, I just think we can find a better one. Thank you for your time. Serious inquiries only.
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